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My GF 31f bdsm advice a fetish for me 38m to sleep with another woman. Recently, we found someone for me to connect with. Now I feel my relationship is falling apart. Is this a big issue in reality? Should i just get more comfortable with bugs? Any advice or experiences are helpful, thanks! Sorry if this is the wrong sub for this, but it seemed like the most general place to ask! Any recommendations on anywhere else to ask would be welcome. My boyfriend has a fetish for a handful of very specific things, usually best put together. Our sex life is great, we do a lot of RP and make a lot of erotica, but when it comes to porn and a similar community, it seems like there's basically nothing out there at all.

He's big into fetish art and fiction, so it's a big disappointment. Now I'm a woman with a weird fetish that has a large community, so I don't think his interests are unique to him, just that we don't know what to search for. I still don't know where the term whump came from. I'm going to outline what he's into as best I can. If bdsm advice a term to describe any one of them, I'd love to know it! My boyfriend is attracted to women, if that makes any kind of difference. Boots : Specifically normal, flat-heeled women's fashion boots, particularly snow boots or boots you might see people wearing in winter.

Most boot stuff seems to revolve around either big high heeled leather boots or combat boots. Obviously related to the boot thing but also stands on its own. I went to a rave and met up with a girl who I've had a friendly relationship with a bunch of sexual tension and the last time we hung out at a party we made out a bunch.

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This a cool girl who runs in one of our city's play communities. We're both interesting in BDSM play but she runs in formal groups whereas my experiences have always been with my partners. We spent almost the entire night together, dancing, talking, making out heavily, rubbing each other's genitals over the pants. Also throughout the night I was making brief teasing actions like a brief tug of her hair pulling her to kiss me or a gently putting my hand around her neck as I pull her in for a kiss.

None of those actions seemed to bother her and in fact all seemed to excite her. Things escalated throughout the night with non-verbal cues and consent to grab each others crotches, I licked her breasts in private, but no kind of sex. While getting into an Uber to go to another event I apparently used the phrase bdsm advice little girl", probably teasing her about behaving well. Almost a week after this she asks me how I knew about her kinks and why I called her a "good little girl".

I told her I have no idea about her kinks but ask perhaps we're aligned. She tells me she's uncomfortable with people knowing her kinks. I tell her I don't know them and that anything she says is kept in confidence. She then chides me for using the term "good little girl" and says that this is a part of BDSM that bdsm advice conversations before being said and that it was inappropriate of me to say that.

I countered that I had no idea she would feel this way, and that she didn't express any issue with it at the time. I feel frustrated because this doesn't feel like a verbal conversation and that there are plenty of vanilla couples who go on dates who use teasing, playful banter like this all the time at their own risk of being shut down of course. I'd love to get some feedback from the community on this so I can be better informed. TDLR; Wifed up with an acquaintance at a rave, lots of hot and heavy action relying on non-verbal cues and non-verbal consent with no issue.

I call her a "good little girl" at some point. She is angry at me because she believes I should have received verbal consent to call her that before hand. You all are the best. Hi, I'm 22 now and I think I knew about my kinks ever since I was in pre-adolescence i. I've had a really hard time accepting myself, though, and been bdsm advice the most part of my life, afraid to teel my partners about it. Even if they accepted me and didn't take me for a freak, hardly they would want to engage in my fantasies.

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I mean, it's so damn hard to have an usual relationship a good oneto want something this specific is so lonely sometimes. So damn lonely. How do you cope with that? Ghastly Old Rotters. Kinksters Online. A place for advice on topics relating to BDSM. Posts Wiki. Hot New Top Rising. Hot New Top. Posted by Mod Team [Vogon]. Archived Comments are locked. Posted by 7 hours ago. Comments are locked. Girlfriend wants me to sleep with someone else. Intentions seem off. Hello, My GF 31f has a fetish for me 38m to sleep with another woman.

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Posted by 6 hours ago. Posted by 17 hours ago. Verbal Consent for using the term "good little girl"? Hey Community, looking for some advice. Here's the story: I went to a rave and met up with a girl who I've had a friendly relationship with a bunch of sexual tension and the last time we hung out at a party we made out a bunch.

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