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The difference between a submissive and a slave is not always clear cut even in the minds of those involved in the bdsm lifestyle. In general, a submissive maintains a certain distance from her Master and retains some freedoms and a slave gives her all as well as her freedoms to her Master. I am sure the submissive vs. It seems to always pop up in lifestyle discussion groups and forums.

This discussion is about what elements make a submissive or a slave. They may not necessarily agree with what a person calls themselves. Often one finds individuals that call themselves a slave, when a submissive would be a better title and sometimes one sees a person described as a submissive that is more akin to a slave. In normal cases, it seems impossible to have a TPE in a real world non forced slavery relationship and it is unusual in forced slavery cases. TPE seems to involve fantasy more than reality. In a true TPE relationship, it would mean that any order a Dominant could think of would have to be obeyed by the slave without question.

Like it or not in the real world there are restrictions on TPE. In my world The slave does not have to obey commands that:. A Conflict with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave. C May cause permanent bodily harm to the slave. D May cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past.

This is not a new concept in slave ownership because in the past many societies that endorsed slavery had restrictions on how a slave could be treated by the owner. One can look in the Bible to see examples of these restrictions. So the concept of TPE is not necessarily realistic in the modern concept of consensual slavery or in forced slavery. Today, slavery within the lifestyle has NO relationship to the forced slavery of the past.

Any slave can, if she chooses, execute her free will and leave the relationship, this is a reality. So, any discussion of slave vs. A submissive obeys and serves by choosing to do so each time and retains her will. A slave initially makes a choice to obey her Master at all times and then submits to the will of her Master at all times. A submissive accepts submission, while a slave accepts obedience:.

In my opinion, a submissive retains freedom of choice and a slave gives her freedom of choice to her Master. A submissive makes a choice to give her submission in a limited fashion, for a defined period of time and under certain conditions. A bdsm submissive slave can have a long-term relationship with a Master, but still retains certain controls.

However, many are satisfied with casual role-play without any long-term goals. Training may or may not be involved between a Dominant and a submissive. A submissive often has a list of conditions, bdsm submissive slave, and limits that a Dominant is required to agree to before entering a session or relationship. These conditions, rules and limits usually define time, place and activity. It is not unusual for a submissive to start the relationship with rules and limits and release some or all of them as trust, respect and love for her Master grows. One should enter the relationship by giving only the amount of power that she feels safe in giving.

The decision to become a slave should be postponed until both the Dominant and submissive know each other and trust each other. A submissive can and often does role-play during an agreed to period of time with a Master. During this period the Master may have total control, then once the period is over, control returns to the submissive. The Master only borrows control of the submissive and to the extent the submissive wishes and she controls her submission.

One definition of a slave vs. If bdsm submissive slave focus is on self then you are a submissive, if the focus is on your Master, and then you are a slave. I am not sure that this is a complete definition for each one; however it is one dividing line between the two.

Being a submissive does not always involve:. Again, there is no need to rush into slavery. One should start out as a submissive and get to know and trust her Master first. Slavery is not for all submissives. If a submissive is unable or unwilling to accept slavery, for whatever reason, that is no great crime. Each person has to determine their needs and focus within the lifestyle.

Slavery calls for a higher level of commitment and of serving, obeying and pleasing than submission. She submits to the will of her Master. His choices become her choices. Obedience is a major focus in her life. Consent and obedience are always assumed to be part of slavery. Communication, mutual understanding and trust grow to the point to where it is no longer play but part of her life.

A slave is owned all the time by her Master regardless of time, place or activity. She is owned by her Master when she is out of his presence. Trust in her Master and surrender to him is the starting point to slavery. Slaves enter into this relationship of their own free will. This is slavery by choice, not forced slavery.

She decides to give her freedoms to her Master. She becomes a slave because she needs, desires and wants to serve, obey and please her Master at all times and in all ways, not because she is forced into slavery. Of course, there will be times when a slave will be forced to do some things, but it will not be something that goes against who she is as a person. Slaves become accustom to obedience and find joy and peace in it. A slave is re-socialized and re-educated by her Master to serve, obey and please him. Her attention is on his happiness.

A Master is responsible for the needs and happiness of a slave. She gives him authority over her needs and happiness. However, a slave is responsible to communicate those needs and feelings. The limits of the Master become the limits of the slave. This does not happen overnight, it is a process of growing into slavery.

A slave does NOT give up thinking and reasoning and become mindless. This is the biggest misconception of slavery. It is a false charge that has been leveled at slaves mostly by cyber-subs and part time players as self-justification for their lack of total commitment. If a cyber-sub can make a slave look mindless then she can justify why she is better than a totally committed slave and supplies a reason why she calls herself a submissive.

One never hears a knowledgeable Master refer to a slave as mindless, because he knows better. He also knows that she is more straightforward and much more useful than any cyber-sub. Often a slave is given great responsibilities within the relationship. They are given a general framework of limits and direction and expected to act within them using their own resources and abilities. The decision made by her Master bdsm submissive slave absolute for her. Often Masters feel more at ease in using a slave to manage a project than they would a submissive.

Throughout history slaves have been given responsibilities that require thought, planning and decision making, there is no reason to discontinue this practice in modern times where there is consensual slavery instead of forced slavery. Consensual slavery involves devotion, caring and obedience; why not take advantage of these traits in a slave as well as her knowledge and skills. She is his property and he has no reason to destroy his property.

In fact, he has a great interest in her development. Bdsm submissive slave, a Master with common sense will seek the opinion of a slave before making a decision in many areas. In areas where she has experience, knowledge and training, it would be foolish for him not to seek her advice before reaching a decision. A good slave will welcome the chance to aid her Master by offering an intelligent opinion. A slave has input into many of the decision making processes that are required in life, but the Master makes the final decision.

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