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We like to dedicate that part of our lives to its own space, removed from the comforts of regular living. Sex dungeons facilitate this crossover, this journey of self. Want to create one? Here are my suggestions for the basic tools. Play nice, boys. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger.

The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality. For all others, enjoy the slideshow.

And feel free bondage playroom leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Hungry for more? Photo by Jon Dean. A permanent sling is a commitment. The chains or straps can be pulled up out of the way, and the sling can be taken down and stowed, but the eye bolts remain. Bondage playroom dominants may use them for other things like rope bondage, suspension bondage, cuff restraint, and so on.

I know at least two New Yorkers who keep permanent slings in the bedroom, pretenses be damned. Chains are classic. But chains get frustrating, as they require you to unclip them and count links in order to adjust the height. Some have ratchets like the straps furniture users move. Most portable slings are sling cubes. These are box-like metal frames you assemble to form a cube-like structure from which you hang a sling in the middle. Not all portable sling frames are box-shaped, though. Disassembled, most fit in a large duffel bag. You can throw it in a coat closet or under the bed.

I find myself in portable slings most often. At a recent sex party in San Francisco, three walls of a large room were lined with portable slings that a setup crew assembled prior to the event. At Mid-Atlantic Leather bondage playroom weekend, portable slings were propped up in hotel room windows, usually with guys in them, curtains wide for all to see. A cage is a good place to keep your submissive when not in use while keeping head space and staying in the scene. Buy a cage made for people, not dogs, since most cages are your local pet store are too flimsy and too small.

You can get them at many fetish retailers. One downside: Cages take up a lot of space for a relatively simple use and purpose, so make sure you have the space to accommodate one. You can do a lot with a fuck bench — bondage, fisting, paddling, spanking, and so on.

For this reason there is no single fuck bench de. Some sex furniture makers call their bench a fuck bench, others a paddle bench, others a spanking bench, others a fisting bench. At their simplest, fuck benches are padded tables, usually covered in leather, which you bend over, doggy-style, and rest on your forearms, stomach, and shins. There are usually anchor points where your arms, legs, and torso can be strapped down for an added element of bondage. Your ass stays up, available for whatever your dominant decides to do to it.

Those of us devoted to the art and science of anal sex have a common problem with most slings — their softness. You crunch in them. When resting in a soft leather or nylon sling, your back bends a little bit. This is impossible in a soft sling. For this reason, we have rigid slings, which are essentially flat, hanging boards that are padded and cushioned and usually covered in leather.

It feels more like a hanging bed and makes the possibility of fucking doggy-style in a sling much easier. Nearly every kink retailer makes some variation of the shoulder sling. Most have a pillow for the neck to keep the strap from digging into your skin.

A shoulder sling is small enough to fit in a carry-on, making it the ultimate travel sling. Pack one for a weekend getaway with your fisting top and think of me. They resemble sawhorses — bondage playroom things carpenters lay planks of wood across for cutting.

You straddle them doggy-style and rest on your chest and stomach. Most have anchor points for your arms and legs to be strapped down. Your ass stays up, as it should. The standard bondage table is a body-shaped, bed-like table where you lie on your back, usually with straps to fasten your arms and legs in. Most are covered in straps and buckles, and may have hinged, separate tables for the legs that allow them to be spread. Bondage playroom good bondage table makes a submissive immobilized and very vulnerable.

Bondage tables are great for CBT cock and ball torturenipple play, electro play, tickling, milking, edging, and other kinks. Knee damage is real — and preventable. Visit your nearest athletic goods store or anywhere that carries wrestling gear. Impact athletes know the importance of protecting the knees.

You should too. Bondage playroom Amsterdam. Stirrups are leg loops that you attach to the chains or straps of a sling. After you climb in, you slide your feet through the loops and let them rest around your ankles or under the backs of your knees. Stirrups might seem like a small and trivial purchase, but they make a big difference. My Recommendation: Sling Stirrups from Mr.

S Leather. A staple of any gay sex bondage playroom is a good, heavy set of metal manacles — usually for the wrists, but ankle manacles are good too. Manacles are medieval-looking, dungeonesque accoutrements of capture, calling to mind damp torture chambers. Pro tip: Always have a spare key close by — close enough for him to grab in an emergency. I work on a fetish porn set. We keep a wheeled metal rack that holds everything — lube, electrical wires, wipes, sex toys, and so on. We keep them in clear plastic bags with holes poked through, hung from the rack on double-ended metal clips.

This keeps toys close at hand and not thrown in a bin somewhere — a useful trick I recommend for everyone. Another endlessly useful bondage tool. You may use them to fasten cuffs to collars, ankle cuffs to wrist cuffs, wrist cuffs to thigh bondage playroom, and so on. You need plenty. Get several sets of sturdy metal carabiners and keep them in one place. Before my last Sir introduced padded leather cuffs to our play, I had only used handcuffs.

Padded cuffs are essential for any kind of cuff suspension, which is what he wanted to do. Splurge on some good padded leather wrist cuffs with a locking buckle — and old-school, ever-reliable bondage feature — and take care of them. We develop a warmth and appreciation for a good set of worn-out cuffs. Same as wrist cuffs, just slightly bigger to accommodate the ankles. When buying locks and keys, ask for double and triple sets, and pay extra for them. Irons may be for the wrists, ankles, or both.

I like both. These are rigid rings that lock on a flat metal bar. When you have a double rigid iron, you stay bent over in an extremely vulnerable position with your ass available for use. Turn him on his side and fuck that hole sideways. A posture collar is more of an aesthetic collar than a functional one, but as a submissive who has worn several, I can say a posture collar makes you feel incredibly vulnerable.

If something is being done to the body and we detect sensation, we generally like to look at it. Discuss what you both think the collar means. My Recommendation: Go to your nearest hardware store Home Depot for most folks in the United States and find a piece of chain that feels appropriately thick and heavy.

The cost will be drastically cheaper than anything you find in a fetish store. You can likely find an appropriate lock there also, but I suggest purchasing a dozen or more of Mr. All the locks and keys are the same — a helpful bit of info in case you ever lose track of which key goes to which lock or lose one and need to order more. A leather collar is more acceptable as a onetime kinky accoutrement — something used during a puppy play scene, for example, and nothing more.

If leather is too costly or feels too serious, go for neoprene — the material they make scuba suits out of. Neoprene is its own widely fetishized material, and one benefit it offers is a considerably cheaper price than leather. Gags and bondage playroom getting gagged is one of my biggest fetishes.

Nothing delivers me into subspace bondage playroom than someone shutting me up. Others keep the mouth open, turning your sub into a drooling mess ring gags and rubber horse bits. Other gags simply cover the mouth, like tape. Learn what you like to look at, what you like to wear, and what you like to hear, and invest in good gags. My Recommendations: So many! Urinal Piss Gag from Oxballs.

Spider Gag and Strap from Regulation London. A light-blocking blindfold that keeps pressure off the eyes is hard to come by. The best examples of these are blindfolds that are concave, bowl-shaped. The difference is felt after wearing it a short time. Pressure against the eyes is uncomfortable during a long scene. My Recommendations: Ultimate Blindfold from Mr. S Leather pictured and Asylum Muzzle from Mr. There are truly hundreds of rope bondage positions that use and require a spreader bar or something like it that you can look up — a fact which makes a good adjustable spreader bar among the most versatile kinky tools.

Great for abduction scenes, caging, isolation, interrogation, and fag training, a good set of handcuffs is perhaps the most iconic symbol of kink. Anyone have a medical fetish? Need to teach your tortured patient a thing or two? Does he need a rectal examination, or get large and strange things poked and prodded up his hole? You might want to put him in a straitjacket. These come in their authentic cloth, but you can also find them made of leather, rubber, neoprene, and more.

A head harness typically combines everything I love — gag, blindfold, and buckles — and they look sexy to wear. Ask Sir to take a picture of you in it. My Recommendations: Asylum Muzzle from Mr. Rubber Muzzle from Regulation London pictured.

Bishop Head Harness from Mr.

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