Cigar service bdsm

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Cigar service bdsm

So, in the interest of sharing it with all of you I wanted to break down what I do know about it, and of course share a little sneak peek into my BDSM relationship. Cigar service is the very formal preparing, treatment, and serving of cigars.

Cigar service bdsm

She was fantastic, and taught me everything I know! First, you need to learn some things about cigars. The best way to do this is by trying them, which if you enjoy smoking cigars like I do! Some cigars need to be cut like in the picture above and others do better with a punch I like Xikar brand, like this one. This leaves a slight curve towards the end and helps keep it from unraveling. A punch is where you cut out the middle of the smoking end, and you want to place it as close to center as you can.

Cigar service bdsm

At a minimum you want to dampen both ends damp, not wet with saliva, and then use the lighter to heat the saliva away. TIP: Keep the cigar rotating and moving through the flame constantly, you just want to dry the outside of the cigar, not singe the wrapper at all! The more fun, and much sexier, method is to toast the entire cigar.

Cigar service bdsm

This means putting as much of the cigar in your mouth as you can take, slide it in and out a few times to get it damp, then switch it around and do the same from the other side. Then, still toast it with the lighter, and be careful not to singe the wrapper like I mentioned before. From what I can tell, this does a few things. It adds moisture into the cigar, warms the whole thing up so the flavor is more consistent throughout, and puts on one helluva show.

The Doms like it. Kneel in front of them, hold the cigar in the palm of your hand, smoking end toward them, and then raise it above your head while you bow your head. It sounds silly, but make sure you light the correct end of the cigar. PLEASE make sure the lit end is hanging off the end of your palm, a burn is not fun or sexy, but same rules apply. Kneel, head down, palm cigar service bdsm your head to offer it. At the cigar events the subs stay on the ground the whole time.

We usually just sit though, because kneeling on concrete gets to be fucking miserable after an hour or so. It is exactly what it sounds like, when the cigar is ready to ash the Dom will call you over and wait for you to offer a body part. Kneel in front of them, hold your palms up, together, and they will ash onto the fatty part of your palm near your thumb.

Cigar service bdsm

Immediately start to roll it back and forth until the heat starts to dissipate a little. Offer your hands again and the Dom will press them together with their hands, this for me the painslut masochist anyway sends a huge rush through me. When the heat dissipates, blow the ash from your palm or brush it off of you and then return to position. It makes it very clear who I belong to.

Also, I think he just likes to show me off, which also turns me on to no end. Either at his house, or mine, with a glass of bourbon. If you like cigars, you can do this too! LOL Honestly, I still cigar service bdsm it though, and we have a blast doing it. Have any of you lovelies done cigar service? Share in the comments here or on Facebook! Thank You! It is new for me… but I will try out that. Thank for teach me. I was looking for a clear explanation of the role of the cigar in the session and this clear description of behaviour and the sub reaction is helpful, thanks.

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Notify me of new posts by. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Ask Me Anything: Cigar Service! What is cigar service anyway? So, what do you do? What the fuck is taking ash?! Where do you do this? Fred Strunk on July 26, at pm. Your Explanation of you preparing Cigars and accepting ash from your Master and whoever He allows is very well done and very entertaining! Glad you enjoyed it!! Isabella on July 8, at pm. Jennifer Bene on August 25, at am.

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Cigar service bdsm

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