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What does it mean to be collared? It can mean many things to many different people. For some, it is a new beginning of a journey. For others, it is a step in the training process. It all depends on the Dominant you are with. For every Dominant has a different way of doing things. How does one get to the point of being collared? This is probably one of the more confusing things for a submissive to understand because there is no clear-cut answer.
Some may not even use what we commonly think of as a collar, but rather a definitive mark such as a piercing or tattoo or even a piece of jewelry. Many in the lifestyle take months or even years to come to this point in their journey. It is certainly not something to be rushed into. For many lifestylers, it is considered to be a bond greater than that of marriage. Would you rush into a marriage without knowing anything about the person you are marrying?
It has the definite meaning to both the Dominant and the submissive. It is something to be cherished and respected just like any other type of union. I have been fortunate to wear a collar both in collaring your sub and online in my various journeys in this lifestyle. It was never something I rushed into and it was always something I viewed with respect.
It was something that I had earned the right to wear. But how does collaring your sub earn the right? This is probably a confusing concept for some submissives because of what is commonly known as a Velcro collar. A Velcro collar really has no true meaning behind it and is given and taken away on a whim. Many would argue that it cheapens what a true collar means and I quite frankly have to agree. Glad you finally got around to asking that question. In most cases it is earned by obeying your Dominant, completing your training, and advancing in your relationship to that step.
It should also be something both parties mutually want. Whether or not there is a ceremony is up to both parties. Usually, in my experience, it is a private affair but sometimes it is witnessed by close friends. It is a solemn occasion and one to be taken with seriousness. There is no right or wrong way to it. Though sometimes it may be followed by a party. The important thing to remember in all of this is that it is something that you should treasure. A collar symbolizes your commitment and quite often your love and devotion to the Dominant. Why else would you wear it?
That is truly the best part of it. Every month I'll update you on the latest from Submissive Guide and you'll get first access to new resources, offers and events. There is some common ground though when it comes to the protocol: How does one get to the point of being collared? But how can a collar be earned?
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