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Los Angeles. Thanks for subscribing! Look out for your first newsletter in your inbox soon! A professional dominatrix is skilled at applying the right kind of pain that can make her masochistic, submissive client cry out in pleasure. A truly professional and experienced dominatrix is more like a guide through the less accessible sexual pleasure that some men—and women—find in the acts of submission or masochism, both in and out of a dungeon. This is why most sessions with a pro-domme professional dominatrix are carefully thought out and planned beforehand by the mistress to dom mistress sure they are uniquely tailored to, and enjoyed by, each particular sub.
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I enjoy this sort of play because it draws these insane reactions out of the subs that make the session so memorable. Who are your most unusual clients? The strangest ones are the ones who ask for the most unexpected things. What's weird to me is not necessarily weird to the vanilla bystander, but my strangest session by far ended up with me writing two comparative essays for the sub.
What is your personal fetish? Medical play. I love it when things are cold, shiny, sharp and sterile. Do you find sexual pleasure in the role of dominatrix? I get a mental turn-on from it. The mental high of dominating someone and making them submit to me is unlike anything else, and I get so much gratification out of feeling them melt like putty in my hands when I push them past what they thought they were capable of. Any etiquette tips for new clients? Among others: Arrive clean. Immaculately clean. Book a session with An Li on her website: www. Who are your typical clients? My favorite implements are my floggers and my singletail whips.
I have the ability to play very light and sensual or heavy and sadistic if the person I am playing with wishes. Lambskin floggers are soft and sensual, and a person getting flogged experiences a sensation similar to a massage. What is the most memorable or outrageous request you've received from a client? Someone came to me and wanted to do an interrogation scene in which they would be tortured to get the information out of them.
His fantasy was to refuse and be blindfolded and shot! He was surprised when I agreed. We did the interrogation scene and I finally told him he would be executed if he did not tell me what I wanted to know. Andrews Cross and shot him with a paintball gun. The red ink splattered on his chest and he loved it. He later shared that he had asked many others, and all refused. Book a session with Mistress Cyan on her website: www. Yes, but not in the typical sense. It's more of a brain-orgasm.
I believe this was partially due to being raised in a very matriarchal family. When I played house with my classmates I would always make the boy play as the dog dom mistress of the father. Book a session with Cybill Troy on her website: www. How did you get into the industry? I first became interested in BDSM during my master's program in psychology when I chose to write a paper on sadomasochism. I wrote more papers on SM during my master's and PhD programs, then ultimately wrote my doctoral dissertation on erotically submissive men.
During this time, I took workshops and classes on dom mistress BDSM topics, preparing myself to work as a professional dominatrix. I love it all. Anyone who is into sexual power dynamics, fetishes or fantasies is into the mental aspect dom mistress than anything else. They need someone to really get what their particular angle is. I dom mistress time to really get to know and understand their particular fantasies and fetishes, and I manifest that for them.
What is a turn-off for you? Book a session with Mistress Damiana Chi on her website: www. My slaves know that when we play, they are getting the real deal. I understand the true essence of power exchange. Play in the [BDSM] scene provides a mental arousal rather the traditional sense of sexual pleasure. For instance, recently I had a session where I broke my slave.
My slave was pushed to his mental and physical edge—he went as far as he could go with me. Cathartically, my slave let himself go, expressed his true vulnerability and wept. I am a sadist above all in the scene; I get a high from breaking someone mentally and physically. The combination of the two is the ultimate turn on for me. These experiences are rare achievements in the years that I have played.
I cherish those sessions, and they are amongst the most stimulating for me. Do you have any advice for newbies to BDSM? I co-wrote a book titled How to be a Dominant Diva which focuses on giving couples the inspiration and tools to explore eroticism, role-play and power exchange in a way that is exciting but never intimidating! Book a session with Mistress Georgia Payne on her website: www. My specialty is in tease and desperation play.
One way to reach dom mistress state is via sexual desperation. By building up arousal over time without sexual gratification, eventually you reach a point where your sexual desires become too overwhelming to handle—it is a place where you are willing to do anything for gratification, and at that moment, my power over you is absolute. What is your favorite safe word?
While the type of play I typically engage in doesn't involve physical danger, if I were to accidentally transgress, I do absolutely honor limits. Are you friends with any of your clients? Ideally, I would be friends with all my clients. I am there to open them up to the most sensitive and vulnerable part of themselves—there's a lot of trust and emotional closeness that is built.
Some people want more than I can give—whether it's time, attention or specific acts—and in these instances I need to strongly enforce my boundaries, which makes it more difficult to have a friendship. I'm going to keep that between me and him.
And besides, in many ways, a private jet is more of a burden than a gift. Book a session with Mistress Iris on her website: www. Intuition, imagination and understanding the psychology of the dynamic. I love nice equipment so my dungeon is fully equipped with the best of everything for most BDSM play.
Nothing is typical in this industry. I have the extremely wealthy to the average Joe, and I enjoy them both. But the common thread is the need to be able to escape the normal day to day. Some people go to spas, amusement parks or the movies, others go to dungeons. One of my most loyal and thoughtful submissives just bought me a new car. He offered me any car I wanted and I chose one that fits my personal life instead of one that you would imagine a famous dominatrix driving.
It breaks all stereotypes and is perfect. Book a session with Isabella Sinclaire on her website: www. Middle-aged white men, although I have been seeing younger clients and more couples in recent years. I had a client who wanted to use this custom dildo that was modeled after a horse penis, which also was able to squirt a lube that looked like cum.
Always be clean, on time and respectful. Try not to be time waster. Put down a deposit. Book a session with Mistress Justine Cross on her website: www. I found myself at a crossro in my life and thought perhaps I should try something new, and it changed my life.
My favorite things to do are feminazation, foot worship and ball busting. Also I am an actual sadist and I also enjoy very heavy pain play. My first ever gift as a pro-domme from my first ever slave was a beautiful pair of Christian Louboutins You give the best, you get the best out of people.
Book a session with Lady Lila Stern on her website: www. I started pro-domming while I was still a grad student here in LA. Much of my work in the field of art had to do with dom mistress dynamics, objectification, voyeurism and exhibitionism, so although I was always been interested in BDSM as a type of eroticized power exchange, I had a hard time giving myself permission to explore it in my personal life. The truth of the matter is that my clients are men, women, couples, crossdressers, tall, short, fat, skinny, professionals, students, caucasian, black, Asian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, old, young, talkative, shy, rich and working class.
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