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Dear Lovehacker, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and things have gotten serious to the point where we discuss marriage. I love him and think we would make great partners in life.

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He is caring, patient, smart and enjoys the same dorky things I do. But there is one attribute that I am struggling with. I have slowly learned that he has a fetish for very long hair. I myself have always had long hair, or so I thought mid-back. Soon I started noticing his obsession with watching online videos and following women on Instagram with extremely long hair. I am in my late 20s. I thought at this point in my life I had dealt with all my body image issues. Suddenly I feel like an awkward teenager again and ashamed of my physical features.

Sure, hair grows, but the idea of having to change myself for a man makes me feel gross. I worry about him possibly messaging them, maybe even meeting up with the local ones. This makes me feel sick to my stomach. I hate the feeling of jealousy. When I get the thought to look at his phone I have to slap it out of my brain. I know, the problem is in my head. He has a fetish. I know he chose to date me and so that means he should like me, right? I feel gross in so many ways and not just about my looks but about how I am acting. Hair fetish do I do? Is this something I can learn to accept? Do I save both of us the trouble and end it so he can find someone with the features he likes and I can find someone who likes me the way I am?

Am I just crazy? Hair fetish, Not the Fetish.

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Before I get into this, I feel like I need to define some terms. Sexual fetishes tend to be a sexual response to an otherwise non-sexual object or body part. Fetishes differ from a preference in that someone with a fetish usually requires that object or part to become aroused or to actually orgasm. It helps maintain and balance the sexual compatibility between partners. Dressing a little differently because you know they like how you look in this particular type of outfit? Not exactly a huge ask or a betrayal of your true self.

Simple maintenance — keeping it clean and hair fetish of tangles — is already a pretty ificant time-sink, doubly so if you need to blow-dry it. It demands a pretty ificant commitment from the person growing their hair out. Maybe you could get a Rapunzel-esque wig and wear it on occasion?

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But this part of your letter leapt out at me:. Collecting videos and pictures of his fetish is pretty normal behaviour. A low libido or erectile dysfunction caused by medication is also fairly common; SSRIs are especially infamous for killing your sex drive deader than the dodo. But once is happenstance, twice is coincidence. Three times is enemy action cause for concern. So I think you need to sit down and have hair fetish long, serious talk with him about this. Maybe he can talk with his doctor about finding medication without those sexual side-effects.

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