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I want to start featuring real-life experiences from those willing to anonymously share with me to help others understand the emotions and needs behind BDSM. If you feel so inclined, please use the anonymous submission form to share your thoughts and experiences with readers. We can all play a role in helping to educate others to abolish the misconceptions about this lifestyle. I can tell you honestly that you will get a thrill from writing your experience and will feel real life bdsm stories of those emotions again.

Enjoy it! BDSM is about the psychological control the Dominant has over their submissive and the power exchange they have together. YES, orgasms and sexual activity can be a part of it, if you choose to add that to your dynamic consensual, obviouslybut that is not where the basic need stems from. It started with a knock on her door. When she opened it, I knew that she would see the need in my eyes.

The want. We had been talking for a few months and had a few encounters. All of them friendly, a few playful. I knew her at this point, and she knew me. There was an established trust there now. A bond. She knew what I was going through: all the emotions screaming at the top of their lungs in my head. My life was insane at the moment — total chaos. As someone who openly admits is a control freak, I needed the screaming to stop. No other words were said as she closed the door behind me and lead me by the hand into her home.

She dragged a wooden chair from the dining room and placed it in front of me while telling me to strip out of my pants but leave my shirt on. I did as I was told, after all, that is why I was there. She pulled the chair up in front of me, so the back of it was pressed against my stomach and slowly circled.

She stopped once behind me and ran her hands up my back stopping at my neck. She spread my legs and secured them with a spreader bar. Tell me what is wrong. You feel…? Every time I said a word, my lips quivered and my voice shook. And do not stop until I say so. I could hear it against her palm. She stopped behind me and slowly pressed against me. I want you to take ten deep breaths and on each exhale, relax deeper into yourself. The paddle hit the left side of my ass just at the last of the breath escaped my lips. I sucked in air, hard. The paddle hit the opposite side. Repeat each one until I say stop.

This went on for 10 minutes. She told me to stop real life bdsm stories had me focus on breathing again. The entire time she stood behind me with her hand on my lower back. This time tears and gasps separated each word.

She told me to stop and she walked away, returning a few moments later with a glass of water with a straw. She knelt down in front of me and placed the straw in my mouth and wiped the tears from my eyes. We made eye contact the entire time, but no words were said. She stood up and again, circled behind me placing one hand on my back. I was sobbing so hard that my legs collapsed, and I was hanging over the chair. And not because I was in pain. I had gone numb a while ago. It was because all of those emotions, those screaming feelings, were GONE.

I had said them out loud. I faced them. I made them real, and then I purged each one from my mind. I finally felt like I could breathe. She bent behind me as I sobbed and kissed every mark on each side. Then she slowly stood me up and turned me to face her.

Placing her hands on my face, she kissed each cheek before using a cold wash cloth to wipe my face. It was one of the most amazing, freeing, empowering moments I have ever experienced. No clothing was ripped off, no passionate kisses exchanged, no orgasm was dealt. Would you like to submit heh an anonymous kink experience? Please do so by clicking this link to the submission heh form. Do you have a question for our resident Dear Mistress? Nothing is off limits. Too embarrassed to ask a friend or afraid your search history will be discovered?

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