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But the fact remains that it is too many men. Even one man like this is too many. As soon as I tweeted about my experience — offhand, at midnight — hundreds of messages from women with similar experiences flooded in. British doctor Georgina Porter told me that 10 years ago, newly-single and in her early 40s, she ed dating apps and was struck by the of men who asked for sexual practices that felt extreme. Porn is also why men want to spit on women; anything degrading. The new 'frigid' is 'vanilla'. Girls who don't want porn-inspired sex — anal, hair-pulling and choking — are shamed for their 'inhibitions'.
In the wake of sharing my encounter, a of people — and it was, mostly, men — rushed to belittle or defend it. How many opening conversations from women on dating apps begin with them asking men if they can choke, hit, slap or spit on them? Anal was also incredibly rare. Porn is eroticising violence against women, and as the mother of a nine-year-old boy, I really worry. The site was accused of hosting non-consensual content connected to spitting during sex pornography, trafficking and rape.
Personally I prefer the red flags up front. As for me, I ended the conversation by blocking and reporting his profile to the dating site I was using. Of course, everyone has the right to practice safe and consensual sex in a way that suits both parties, as long as it is, truly, consensual — and comes from a place of mutual trust, care and respect.
We all need to do our part and call out men who treat women as objects; who joke about rape and beating and choking, online or in the pub. We must make a stand about the normalisation of sexual violence against spitting during sex, and distinguish it from a sexually-liberated society. Want to bookmark your favourite articles and stories to read or reference later? Start your Independent Premium subscription today. Recommended Femicide is a leading a cause of premature death for women - why. More about sexual violence Choking dating apps.
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Third of British women have experienced unwanted choking, slapping or spitting during sex